Has your emotionally abusive relationship taken over your life?

Has your emotionally abusive relationship taken over your life? 
Living life – or, more correctly, trying to live life – as an emotionally abused woman is about as easy as trying to live with a family of elephants permanently parked right at the heart of your living space. 
An emotionally abusive relationship fills all the space available. 
Consciously, […]

Is This Second Nature To You?

If you’re an emotionally abused woman, it’s become second nature for you to tell yourself you don’t matter.
How could it possibly be otherwise?
Your emotionally abusive partner spent a lot of time teaching you that you don’t matter – to him, and to The World at large. (It baffles me how Mr Nastys everywhere can be […]

What are you not seeing?

What are you not seeing? Have you ever had the feeling you must be missing something that was staring you in the face?  
When you think about it, you must have done, mustn’t you? Otherwise you wouldn’t have been able to be so, er …  blind to the shortcomings of an emotionally abusive man.  
We don’t see […]

Is Suffering Inevitable In An Emotionally Abusive Relationship?

Is suffering inevitable in an emotionally abusive relationship?  It may feel inevitable.  Buy let’s look at what’s really happening.
Have you come across the Buddhist saying: “Pain is inevitable: suffering is optional”?
It’s a powerful distinction.
When you get involved in an emotionally abusive relationship, you board a runaway train of pain and suffering.  No doubt about that.  […]

Is Something Stopping You?

Have you ever felt there was something stopping you?  Something standing in the way of your having the good life you truly deserve?   If you’re like most emotionally abused women you probably feel a lot of obstacles stand in the way of you taking action.
However ground down you become in an emotionally abusive relationship, […]

2013, YOUR Year

It’s 2013, your year! 
Hooroo!  Christmas and the New Year are behind you!  Now you can turn your attention to making 2013 your year.
Like everyone else, you come to the New Year with your fears, anxieties, problems, and possibilities.  Inside your own head, what’s making more noise, your fears-anxieties-problems?  Or your possibilities? 
Does it sound like a […]

My Very Best Wishes For Your Happy 2013

I’d like to wish you a heartfelt Happy 2013. 
The New Year is always a meaningful, almost magical, time for me.  It’s got nothing to do with Resolutions, and everything to do with happiness.  I can be quite obsessive about wishing friends and loved ones a Happy New Year.  It really matters to me to take […]