“You just know”

13,000 miles from home, I was sitting at a kitchen table talking relationships with Karina, a new friend, when she said something that stopped me in my tracks:
“You just know.”
The conversation had turned to Sue, friend of hers, who’d settled for a “friendship with benefits”, and had a child by her “friend” – and room-mate […]

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Top 10 Tips To GUARANTEE An Abusive Man Won’t Leave You Alone

Be sure to answer his text messages.  He’s sent you a text which means he, clearly, expects an answer.  So, you’d better give him one, hadn’t you?  No matter that he doesn’t answer your messages when it doesn’t suit him.  That’s different, isn’t it?
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“There’s More Room In A Broken Heart”

“Don’t mind if I fall apart, there’s more room in a broken heart” as Carly Simon famously sang (Coming Around Again)  As you know to your cost, an abusive man doesn’t need those words of reassurance.  He really won’t mind if you fall apart – provided you do it quietly enough.  Of course, if you […]