An Abusive Partner – Not For Christmas, Or For Life!

Not just for Christmas
Here in the UK we’re frequently reminded, at this time of year, that “A Dog Is Not Just For Christmas”.  True enough, decent, responsible people don’t buy a dog just for Christmas.
However, the fact that we are constantly reminded that a dog is for life suggests that a lot of people must […]

When Are Things Bad Enough To Leave?

The three measures
When are things bad enough to leave an emotionally abusive relationship?
When are things bad enough to leave? is something that emotionally abused women always ask themselves.
The three measures that a woman commonly uses to establish to establish if things are bad enough to leave are
#1 When the children  will be able to cope […]

“What Do You Love About Your Emotionally Abusive Partner?”

“What do you love about him?”
What do you love about him?  is a favorite question of mine  What is it that emotionally abused women love about the abusive partner who has worked so hard to make them feel miserable, broken and worthless. 
There is little point, you see, in asking emotionally abused women why they love their […]