What makes it so hard to recover from emotional abuse?

 “It’s so hard to recover from emotional abuse.”
“What makes it so hard to recover from emotional abuse?” writes Cate.  “He’s gone, but I still can’t laugh, smile or find joy. What is wrong with me?
I need some advice on how to handle this craziness that happens when they finally leave your life. You’re forced to […]

Terrified To Leave An Emotionally Abusive Partner

Terrified to leave an emotionally abusive partner 
Are you terrified to leave an emotionally abusive partner? Or, if you have already left, did terror keep you from leaving sooner?
I have yet to meet a woman who was not terrified to leave an emotionally abusive partner.
Emotionally abused women only have to think about leaving for the terror […]

The Man Who Told Me I Was Crazy

“You’re crazy!” was one of the stock accusations that my abusive ex-partner used to great effect. Perhaps you have heard it, too, from your (ex) emotional abuser or Narcissist.  It’s a condemnation that is guaranteed to make you feel bad.  In this article, I am going to explore the power and the purpose of the […]

Do You Need Proof of Emotional Abuse?

“I really wish my partner would hit me> Then I’d have proof!” wrote one despairing reader.
Do you suppose that she really means that?   Can she really want her emotionally abusive partner to hit her? Unlikely, right?
So, let’s ask a more useful question,
What is the truth that lies behind that woman’s words?
What the need for proof really […]