How to stop thinking like an emotionally abused woman Part ii

How to stop thinking like an emotionally abused woman is not something that emotionally abused women ask themselves. They say, “How can I stop feeling so bad?” “How can I make sure I don’t go back to him?” and “How can I get him out of my head?” Plus, they may well ask “How can […]

Do You Have A Problem Forgiving An Emotionally Abusive Partner?

Do you have a problem forgiving an emotionally abusive partner?
Do you have a problem forgiving? Have you, too, been told that you need to forgive a partner – or other, key emotionally abusive figure in your life – before you can move on? Have other people – that most tiresome of gangs – dived in […]

Why Should You Be So Unimportant?

“You are not even fit to polish my son-in-law’s boots!” my father-in-law spat at me. For no particular reason.  He was just rude like that.
However, the really interesting part was what happened next.
You see, I was sitting in a room with him, my mother-in-law, my own parents  and the then husband.
What happened next was….
Nothing.
Nobody said […]