How Emotional Abuse Steals Your Future

Emotional abuse steals your future
Emotional abuse steals your future. Guaranteed.  So why is that not something most emotionally abused women think about?  Rather, they think, a lot, about the fantasy future they have been robbed of.  Mostly to the point of obsession.
When your partner has morphed into Mr Nasty from’ Prince Charming’  – or other member […]

How to Deal With Abusive People – Effectively

Who do you learn how to deal with abusive people from?

How to deal with abusive people is, quite probably, one of the most essential recovery skills you need to learn.  It’s also the skill that abusive people really don’t want you to learn, for obvious reasons.
Normally, the people from whom you learn how to deal […]

Why Emotional Abuse Leaves You Feeling Hopeless

Emotional abuse leaves you feeling hopeless.  It’s blindingly obvious.  I have yet to meet a single emotionally abused woman who hasn’t experienced intense feelings of hopelessness.  And yet nobody actually recognizes how profoundly those feelings affect them.
Certainly, emotional abuse does strange things to the victim’s brain.
I’m not going to try to blind you with science […]

How Not To Walk On Eggshells Around Emotional Abusers

What happens when you learn to walk on eggshells?
Have you ever walked on eggshells around an emotional abuser?  Did you learn how to walk on eggshells from an early age?  Has walking on eggshells become a way of being that affects every area of your life – whether or not you are still with an […]