Your pain, and mine

The last 12 days have been the hardest of my life.
It began when my beloved partner was rushed into hospital where he spent 48 hours in Intensive Care, on a respirator, heavily sedated.
We have not been together long – less than three years – and we are not married.  But he is my partner in […]

Stifled and crippled

My client was struggling with what she needed to do.  She had not one man but two in hot pursuit.  One was her ex-partner who – in the way of abusive men – had discovered he ‘truly loved her’ now she wasn’t returning his texts or phone calls any more.  The other was her self-appointed […]

Clean pain and dirty

The past few days have been monumentally difficult.  My beloved partner is in Intensive Care and, for the moment, I’ve had to postpone some private client appointments.
I’d like to share with you a couple of replies I’ve received to the emails of apology I’ve sent.
One said:
“I wish your partner a quick recovery.All the best to […]

“Why did I tolerate so much?

“I still don’t understand my own behavior.  When my partner started pushing me around physically, I left. Before that, I let him literally run my life! He was emotionally abusive and had HUGE control issues.  Yet, I didn’t see his behavior for what it truly was for a very long time. I just coped, and […]