Miscellaneous

What Are You Missing?

 Have you ever thought that there might be something you’re missing about your emotionally abusive relationship?
When I was with my emotionally abusive husband that thought used to hit me at regular intervals.
I’d spend a LOT of time asking myself the Usual Questions:

How can he treat me that way (aka What have I done to deserve […]

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What Are You Missing About Your Emotionally Abusive Partner?

emotionally abused woman’s frustration
 Have you ever thought that there might be something you’re missing about your emotionally abusive relationship?
When I was with my emotionally abusive husband that thought used to hit me at regular intervals.
I’d spend a LOT of time asking myself the Usual Questions:

How can he treat me that way (aka What have I […]

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“Why Is My Emotionally Abusive Ex Happy?”

“It’s not about feeling like a victim, or giving myself a hard time,” M. said,  “I just want to know why my emotionally abusive ex  is happy with his new woman, and why I don’t matter to him.”
In an ideal world, an emotionally abusive man would – sooner, rather than later – either feel the […]

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The 10 Hidden After-Effects of Emotional Abuse

Living with an emotionally abusive partner is a dangerous and damaging thing to do. Unfortunately, getting him out of your bed, isn’t enough to get his toxicity out of your system. Here are the Top 10 After-Effects most emotionally abused women are left with.

Endlessly rehashing your emotionally abusive relationship. Why? You lived it. You did the […]

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How Emotional Abuse Recovery Coaching Changed A Life

One thing my emotionally abusive husband used to say about me that wasn’t wrong was that I can be a bit of a mother hen.  I was born with the Mother Hen gene.  These days I can, and do, rein it in, well enough.  However…
When I first met Olga that Mother Hen gene was instantly […]

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Is it time for you to leave your emotionally abusive partner?

How bad does it have to get, before you finally give up on an emotionally abusive relationship?  
Many emotionally abused women do everything they can to stay in denial until they know they are at rock bottom. But rock bottom is a moving target. When you’re with an emotionally abusive partner, just when you think you must have […]

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How will you do happiness in 2014?

How will you do happiness in 2014?
Now, I understand that you may have a lot of carking cares weighing you down, a lot of  fears  about the future, regrets about the past, and pressures in the present.  Which may mean you don’t feel you even have the time, or the energy, to step back and […]

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What Happens To Your Dreams In An Emotionally Abusive Relationship?

If you’re an emotionally abused woman, what’s happened to your dreams?
Were you someone who used to dream – before your emotionally abusive partner came along and shattered your dreams?  Or were you – like me – someone who learned early on that dreams, and aspirations, weren’t ‘for the likes of you’? 
My path as a wife, […]

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If you’ve ever been in an emotionally abusive relationship, there’s one thing, above all, that you should have learned: you’re not naturally good at handling emotionally abusive people. You’re not good at dealing with an emotionally abusive husband. 
Now, I quite understand if that seems a little hard to swallow: if anyone had said that to […]

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How Do You Start Over After An Emotionally Abusive Relationship?

How do you start over after an emotionally abusive relationship when you don’t know how to start over? How do you find the courage to leave an emotionally abusive husband when you’re too frightened to leave, due to fear, guilt, or shame? How do you get over the hurt that, as an emotionally abused woman, […]

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The 5 Simple Steps to Healing from Narcissistic Abuse

Over the next 5 days, I'll send you some lessons and tips that I've found have really helped women to heal from narcissistic abuse.  Starting with the basics.