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“We give, give, give, give, give, give, give…”

If you’ve ever had a child, or been a child yourself, you probably know the song “Heigh ho” from “Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs”.  Strange as it may sound, emotionally abused women have a similar work ethic to the Seven Dwarfs. Remember these lines?

“We dig dig dig dig dig dig dig in our mine
the […]

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Twitter Weekly Updates for 2012-04-08

Are you a woman is catastrophizing? How can you tell? http://t.co/OaOHD3s9 #
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What’s keeping you focused on your ex? […]

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“The problem with strong, intelligent women is..”

What do you suppose the problem with strong, intelligent women is?
According to actor Dennis Waterman:
“The problem with strong, intelligent women is that they can argue, well. And if there is a time where you can’t get a word in… and I… I lashed out. I couldn’t end the argument.”
If  Dennis Waterman says so, it must […]

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“You just know”

13,000 miles from home, I was sitting at a kitchen table talking relationships with Karina, a new friend, when she said something that stopped me in my tracks:
“You just know.”
The conversation had turned to Sue, friend of hers, who’d settled for a “friendship with benefits”, and had a child by her “friend” – and room-mate […]

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Twitter Weekly Updates for 2012-04-01

You’ve been in an abusive relationship, who must you NOT trust going forward? http://t.co/nrxvUz8R #
3) Looking for a quality man, but does your mental chatter sound like this? http://t.co/RCMeSqhc #
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An important part of building self-worth is not worrying what […]

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Top 10 Tips To GUARANTEE An Abusive Man Won’t Leave You Alone

Be sure to answer his text messages.  He’s sent you a text which means he, clearly, expects an answer.  So, you’d better give him one, hadn’t you?  No matter that he doesn’t answer your messages when it doesn’t suit him.  That’s different, isn’t it?
Try very hard to have the last word.  I understand it means […]

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Twitter Weekly Updates for 2012-03-25

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How NOT To Want What You Can’t Have

One thing that makes it so hard to move on for all abused women, including Adele (who we met in last week’s ezine) is the legitimate sense of grievance we have.  We have been wronged, big time.  So, it would be nice to have some acknowledgement of the wrong that’s been done to us – […]

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Twitter Weekly Updates for 2012-03-18

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The 5 Simple Steps to Healing from Narcissistic Abuse

Over the next 5 days, I'll send you some lessons and tips that I've found have really helped women to heal from narcissistic abuse.  Starting with the basics.