“How Long Will You Settle For Crumbs?”

15 Nov 2008

I’ve been working with a woman who can neither give up her
abusive partner nor be with him.

She can’t be with him because she can no longer blind
herself to the fatal flaws in the relationship. But she can’t let him go because of the good moments they share
together every so often.

She still fails to see the mechanism at work there, that the
good moments are the bait on his hook that keeps her biting. 

Perhaps she fails to see that because she cannot bear to
confront her own motivation. She needs
to believe that those good moments are a taster of all that she can still have
with this man, if she just tries a little harder and makes a few more

Even, or maybe I should say especially, she is tiring
of her own stubbornness. Yet she cannot
let go.

Why?  CLICK HERE to find out why and how she can start to let go right now.


Annie Kaszina, international Emotional Abuse Recovery specialist and award-winning author of 3 books designed to help women recognise and heal from toxic relationships so that they can build healthy, lasting relationships with the perfect partner for them, blogs about all aspects of abuse, understanding Narcissists and how to avoid them and building strong self-worth. To receive Annie’s blog direct to your Inbox just leave your details here.

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