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Twitter Weekly Updates for 2012-02-12

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Sherlock Holmes and The Builder http://t.co/lY3h2LWs #

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Sherlock Holmes and The Builder

Have you ever had that sinking feeling when you discovered you were doing something you hoped you never would? Like turning into your mother? (Ouch!)
This week, I had one of those moments when I was talking with my lovely mentor, Alexandra Watson. We were talking about what gets in the way of women’s happiness. (In […]

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Twitter Weekly Updates for 2012-02-05

Twitter Weekly Updates for 2012-01-29 http://t.co/iVm8Zb3a #
“That’s Not Who I Am” http://t.co/GsaR0Flq #

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“That’s Not Who I Am”

There’s something a tad controversial that I need to say.  If you’ve ever been in an abusive relationship, need to know that somehow, at some point in your life, you were programmed to be “a victim in waiting”.  It’s not who you truly are, and it’s absolutely NOT an accurate reflection of your inner courage […]

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Twitter Weekly Updates for 2012-01-29

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“Is my only choice doormat or else…?” http://t.co/mnqufXYn #

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“Is my only choice doormat or else…?”

Isn’t it fascinating the power Other People have over our thinking?
This week, Becky wrote with a problem Other People (OP) kindly pointed out to her: “People tell me I’m too kind-hearted.  But I can’t be a bitch, it’s just not in me. Am I destined to spend my life as a good-natured door mat?”
Ouch!!! Don’t […]

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Twitter Weekly Updates for 2012-01-22

Twitter Weekly Updates for 2012-01-15 http://t.co/e6R017C7 #
“Do people really believe abused women?” http://t.co/7xn08P7e #

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“Do people really believe abused women?”

Wendy wrote to voice a question that many of us ask ourselves at some point. Here’s her question and my reply. * 
“I sometimes feel other people I’ve told about my “abusive situation” don’t believe me. Or perhaps they don’t understand, so they say glib things like “Oh well, just forgive him” or “you need to stay […]

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Twitter Weekly Updates for 2012-01-15

How do you move on from being out of the relationship, but not over it? http://t.co/MH000PzP #
Making excuses for his bad behaviour when he’s drunk may make you feel better, for a little while, but here’s why the problem won’t go away #
Want to know what makes women stay with an abusive partner when they […]

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The 5 Simple Steps to Healing from Narcissistic Abuse

Over the next 5 days, I'll send you some lessons and tips that I've found have really helped women to heal from narcissistic abuse.  Starting with the basics.