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You’re Nice!

You know something?  You’re nice.And bad things happen to nice people. It’s not a punishment for being nice.  It’s an occupational hazard for “doing nice”.(I’m prepared to labor this point a little, because it really is key.  But abused women don’t get it the first or the second time.  It takes a LOT of getting your […]

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Twitter Weekly Updates for 2012-07-08

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Why Should They Care?

There’s something you need to take on board about people: people don’t all work the same way.
Now, you may be wondering why I’m telling you something so blindingly obvious.  If you’ve been on this earth for more than 5 minutes, you already know that, don’t you?
It’s not quite that simple.  In reality, it seems to […]

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Twitter Weekly Updates for 2012-07-01

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Your Parents… http://t.co/AAuFxHul #
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Your Parents…

We need to talk about your parents.
This is NOT about blame, I’m NOT suggesting we look at your parents in order to lay blame at their door for whatever has happened in your life.
Maybe there’s cause for blame, maybe there isn’t.  Let’s not go there.  You see, we’re in the business of making your life […]

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Twitter Weekly Updates for 2012-06-24

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What Messages Did You Give? http://t.co/tDguW00M #

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Twitter Weekly Updates for 2012-06-17

What makes abused women too trusting for their own good? http://t.co/nrxrmYZH #
2) Discover a quick way to deal with old damaging beliefs: http://t.co/2eZyJURb #
What’s keeping you focused on your ex? http://t.co/MGZVtfqF #
What really keeps women in emotionally abusive relationships: http://t.co/3rHBEnLe #
Twitter Weekly Updates for 2012-06-10 http://t.co/XUDJrgub #
What stops women doing […]

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“Hey, you with the sad face…”

Hey, you with the sad face, how did it happen?  How did you end up stuck in a lousy relationship with an abusive partner.

Every so often I come across a woman who’ll tell me that she was riding high when she met her abusive partner. While I know the woman who tells me that story […]

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Twitter Weekly Updates for 2012-06-10

Want to discover the dirty word nice women use all the time to beat themselves up: http://t.co/ke7kRNWD #
Want to choose a great relationship next time? http://t.co/Rw3EalnF #
What makes women prepared to settle for any partner who happens along: http://t.co/Rw3EalnF #
Twitter Weekly Updates for 2012-06-03 http://t.co/0cbgdEeP #
If you’re making dire predictions for your future, you could […]

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The 5 Simple Steps to Healing from Narcissistic Abuse

Over the next 5 days, I'll send you some lessons and tips that I've found have really helped women to heal from narcissistic abuse.  Starting with the basics.