Recovery

Wanda’s molehill

“Annie, I don’t know what to do.  Things really are better with my husband,.  He’s…

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One, Actually Two, Big, Fat, Damaging Myths

Farrah is someone who has put a LOT of effort into getting over an abusive…

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From “damaged goods” to feeling good

What do women almost always tell themselves when they leave an abusive relationship? One thing…

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Dreams, devils, pheromones, and you

How does Mr Nasty do it?  How does he worm his way into your heart,…

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Real Men Don’t Hit Women iii

 Real men don’t hit women.  And they don’t use words to hurt, humiliate, diminish, or…

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Bindweed

The summer of the year my divorce finally came through saw my garden covered with…

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“Too miserable to stay, too frightened to leave”

Camilla said: “I’m frightened to tell him it’s over because…” Is that something you’ve ever…

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Are You A Mind-Reader?

Have you ever wanted to do something really quite small, and not dared to? That…

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No fish, please!

How many more fish do you think there are in the sea for you?  Whether…

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How To Stay Stuck In An Emotionally Abusive Relationship

A friend of mine stayed stuck for far too long in her emotionally abusive relationship…

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The 5 Simple Steps to Healing from Narcissistic Abuse

Over the next 5 days, I'll send you some lessons and tips that I've found have really helped women to heal from narcissistic abuse.  Starting with the basics.