Abusive Partners

What Did Your Abusive Partner Expect?

Verbal communication is great, isn’t it?  Words may, or may not, mean just what they…

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So, how could you have…?

So, how could you have spotted him, had you been that way minded?  Let’s count…

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Top 10 Tips To GUARANTEE An Abusive Man Won’t Leave You Alone

Be sure to answer his text messages.  He’s sent you a text which means he,…

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Never can say goodbye…?

 Are you struggling with the “G” word?  Struggling to say “goodbye” and mean it?  When…

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How NOT To Recover From An Abusive Relationship – Top 10 Tips

Keep telling yourself why you needed the relationship to work.  You went into the relationship…

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“It’s just the booze talking…”

It’s not often that my wonderful partner drinks to excess – not least because he…

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Is Solitaire Really “The Only Game In Town”?

  Do you remember the old song “Solitaire”?  Solitaire was, apparently, “the only game in…

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“Why Can’t He..?”

 “Why can’t he behave like a normal person?” Geri asked. Because I was pushed for…

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One, Actually Two, Big, Fat, Damaging Myths

Farrah is someone who has put a LOT of effort into getting over an abusive…

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From “damaged goods” to feeling good

What do women almost always tell themselves when they leave an abusive relationship? One thing…

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The 5 Simple Steps to Healing from Narcissistic Abuse

Over the next 5 days, I'll send you some lessons and tips that I've found have really helped women to heal from narcissistic abuse.  Starting with the basics.