victim mind-set

Old Feelings Have Powerful Hooks

20 February 2008

Between having a victim identity or no identity, the victim identity has to be preferable.

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The Payoffs Of Being A Victim

10 February 2008

Being a victim means you get to claim the moral high ground, because of his appalling treatment of you. (Sure, it’s pretty lonely and cold up there, but still it feels better than being down in the mud where he kept you.)

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