abusive marriage

“Is He Abusive? Or Just Insensitive And Selfish?”

6 August 2010

If your partner is “only” extremely thoughtless, and insensitive, do you think that makes the relationship viable?

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Let It Be Easy For People To Like You!

17 February 2010

The bedrock of every abusive marriage, or partnership, is the premise that the abuser decides who is, and is not, ‘good enough’; and, try as they may, the abused partner will never, ever be good enough – whatever that means. Show me one abused woman who has not been programmed for shame, and anxiety, and not feeling good enough by her abusive partner; and, most probably, her family, before him.

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