“I Must Have Been Mad”

by Annie Kaszina on August 3, 2008

Have you ever said: “I must have been mad to stay with him”
or “I must have been mad to stay in that relationship for as long as I did”?

If you have, be aware that expressing that idea marks an
early stage in your healing process. 

Although it doesn’t necessarily make you feel good. Because it suggests that you are shouldering
the blame for the relationship. Shouldering blame is a fairly negative exercise. But when that blame shifts into
responsibility it can become a step towards empowerment. 

How
does that work? It is only when we take
responsibility for our own situation that we can claim the power to change
it. 
 Shouldering
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